AI skills for life and relationships

Skills for finding the right words: hard messages, apologies, speeches, cards, saying no and sorting things out with the neighbours.

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With the skill. You ask: My husband Peter Doyle died on 1 October 2026 in Newcastle, NSW. The funeral director registered it and I got the certificate on 20 October.… After a Death answers: I'm sorry about Peter, Margaret. ADNS: No, not yourself. The service is only for someone with legal authority to administer the estate, so Tom, as executor, would use it.

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Without the skill. You ask: My husband Peter Doyle died on 1 October 2026 in Newcastle, NSW. The funeral director registered it and I got the certificate on 20 October.… The answer: I'm sorry about Peter, Margaret. Can you use the Australian Death Notification Service (ADNS) yourself?
Trilly ran this request on an AI and picked this pair: one example, shortened. The score is from Trilly's test. See the skill
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With the skill

With the skill. You ask: My husband Peter Doyle died on 1 October 2026 in Newcastle, NSW. The funeral director registered it and I got the certificate on 20 October.… After a Death answers: I'm sorry about Peter, Margaret. ADNS: No, not yourself. The service is only for someone with legal authority to administer the estate, so Tom, as executor, would use it.

Without the skill

Without the skill. You ask: My husband Peter Doyle died on 1 October 2026 in Newcastle, NSW. The funeral director registered it and I got the certificate on 20 October.… The answer: I'm sorry about Peter, Margaret. Can you use the Australian Death Notification Service (ADNS) yourself?
One example, shortened. The score is from Trilly's test. See the skill

Skills for finding the right words: hard messages, apologies, speeches, cards, saying no and sorting things out with the neighbours.

The skill for life and relationships

Worldwide skills first, then the newest. Updated 29 October 2026.

Each skill is a workflow your AI follows when you ask.

What you ask stays with you.

Skills run inside your own AI app. Trilly never sees what you asked or what your AI answered.

  1. Link

    Link Claude to Trilly, once. Any Claude plan can link, on the web or the desktop app. See the steps

    What you need
    • Any Claude plan: Free, Pro, Max, Team or Enterprise.
    • On the Free plan you can add one custom connector, which is what Claude calls an app like Trilly.
    • On Team and Enterprise plans members can't add one: an Owner adds Trilly in Organization settings, Connectors. Then you press Connect.
    • Add it on claude.ai or in the desktop app. It's then in Claude on your phone too.
    • We linked Claude to Trilly on 19 October 2026, on claude.ai with the Max plan. We haven't added a skill from a Claude chat yet.
    • Can't link? Download skills and add them by hand
  2. Add

    Ask Claude for a skill, for example: "find a free skill on Trilly for my budget and add it".

    Your first skill in Claude
    • Back in a chat, ask Claude: "find a free skill on Trilly for my budget and add it". Or ask for a skill by the name on its Trilly page. Claude shows you what it's about to do. After that, ask as normal: when a request matches one of your skills, Claude gets the latest checked version from Trilly.
  3. Ask

    Ask as you normally would. Want it to use your email or calendar? Connect them in Claude first.

    Connecting apps in Claude
    • In Claude, open Customize, then Connectors. Pick the app, press Connect, and sign in on that app's own page. In a chat, press + and Connectors to switch one on or off. Keep anything that changes things on Needs approval.
    • Checked 12 October 2026 on the app makers' own pages. Connected apps, explained

Jobs you can hand to your AI

4 more jobs have no skill yet. Tell us which you need: we use every request to decide which skills to make next.

Questions people ask

What's the best AI skill for life and relationships?

On Trilly, After a Death: Tell People, Close Accounts, Track Each One by Trilly Originals is made for life and relationships. Who to tell and in what order, the tell-once service used where there is one, each letter written, and every account tracked until it's closed. None has enough use to rank yet.

Which AI apps do these skills work with?

Claude, ChatGPT and Gemini, plus coding apps such as Cursor and GitHub Copilot. Every skill's Add to my AI page offers a copy for each of them, with the steps for your app. The apps a skill was tested in are marked, and the rest say they're not tested in that app yet. If an app can't do part of a skill, that app's step says so.

Are skills for life and relationships free?

Not yet. The skill here shows its price before you add it.

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